Monday, August 9, 2010

Inspiration?advice?

Boy,
i like this girl and i want to tell her how i feel but every time im about to i just cant do it, i have a mental shut down and i end up just saying hi... any advice/inspiration that can be given to me will be much appreciated....

birsnot,

Just relax. Breathe. The worst can go wrong is that she won't feel the same way but that won't kill you. Trust me a "not interested" is harmless and should you feel sad just remember it will make you stronger and there are tons more girls on the way.

When you feel a "mental shut down" coming on, remember what you are there for and swallow all of those fears. This matters to you or else you wouldn't be considering and then wanting to do it. So since it matters it to you swallow your fears and don't let fear hold you back. You'll never know the answer till you try. When you talk to her, relax. Your heart will be racing and stuff, but you have to be calm and relaxed. Imagine she's your sister, friend or someone who you know for a second and talk as calmly as you would to them. You wouldn't be nervous in front of your cousin Ashley or friend you grew up with or whatever. So use that to keep yourself from stuttering or feeling as if it's impossible. It's not impossible so be positive. Believe in yourself because the way you view yourself is the way people see you, no lie. Show confidence, even if you have to fake it and be yourself. I've given you all I can...now it's up to you to make it happen. So go for it and don't live in fear. I know you can do this and deep down I bet you do too. :)

No comments:

Post a Comment